So
you have rehearsed your interview questions and done all the due diligence you
can on the company you are hoping to work for. S, this makes you totally prepared,
right?
Wrong.
Apparently, less than 10 PERCENT of your communication in that all important
interview will be verbal. So what will you be ‘NOT saying’ for the other 90% of
the time? You know that body language is a vital component to making the right
impression on a potential employer, but did you know how important?
Communication
is all about expressing ourselves, but as statistics show, it’s not necessarily
verbal – How can you leverage the non verbal communication techniques to your
advantage?
The
evaluation of you and your nonverbal communication will start well before you
open your mouth to speak, as soon as you walk into sight. This evaluation will
continue until the interview is finished. If your nonverbal communication
skills aren't up to par, it won't matter how well you answer the questions.
So let’s
go over the basics. I’m sure you’ll do then anyway, but when you actually think
about these, it re-inforces their importance in making a genuine impression.
Clothes maketh the man - It would go without
saying that you dressed appropriately for the interview. You are smart and
crease free, your shoes are clean, your hair and face is kempt, and you feel a
million dollars. Great.
What
about those non obvious accoutrements that follow you into the room also?
Things that might even be sub conscious to you, like chewing gum or a whiff of
cigarette smoke about you, will be totally obvious the minute you are in
sniffing distance of the interviewer – so think on. Permanent attachment to
mobile ‘phones or ipods and such don’t look good either, even in the waiting
room.
Whilst you were waiting – Remember to make an
impression on everyone you meet, as soon as you enter the building. Being rude
or offhand to the receptionist or housekeeping staff and turning on the charm
for the interview won’t cut it – you will get ‘found out. These people could
soon be your colleagues, and it wouldn’t vbe a good way to start your new job.
See it as simple as this. The Interview begins the minute you walk into the
building.
In the Interview
Saying yes - Don’t just say it, prove it. Nod
your head. You probably do it anyway, but make sure you do, it re-inforces your
sincerity..
Tilting the head – when you are listening to someone else
speak, tilting the head to one side shows that you are interested, again, nodding
your head when you agree with something they are saying helps too, but don’t
interrupt!
Mirror , mirror - Mirroring is another very effective
form of non-verbal communication that shows interest in the other person.
Mirroring is simply reflecting the other person's gestures back to them. You
are not recreating their gestures exactly (like some child’s game!) but
mirroring their posture, their mood and their general body movement. It shows
you are accepting and receptive to them and comfortable within the interview.
And a basic list of non verbal
‘do’s.
Kellie Whitehead writes job related content for http://TheEducationProfessionals.Com Education Jobs, the number one online resource for those seeking an education career in Dubai and the Middle East.
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